9 Flirtatious Signs She Likes You Via Text

Looking for signs she likes you via text?

Have you ever been talking to a woman who seemed to show signs  she likes you via text, only you weren’t sure if that was really the case?

If so, you’re not alone. It can be tricky to decipher whether or not a girl really likes you when you’re communicating through text messages.

Don’t worry! Although her feelings may seem ambiguous, there are some key signs she likes you via text that can give you an indication if she is interested in you.

Today, we will explore 9 flirtatious signs that she likes you via text.

Before we dive in, though, there’s something really important we need to talk about…


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Now, let’s dive in! 


She initiates conversation

If she is reaching out to start conversations with you, that’s a pretty clear sign she likes you!

The fact is that women don’t make an effort to talk to men if they don’t have a good reason to.

If she’s not interested, she won’t initiate a conversation. She might not even text you back if you text her first! (More on that here.)


Her tone seems playful

If she’s using playful language or sending you funny jokes, that’s one of the really positive signs she likes you via text!

Venturing into more flirtatious territory doesn’t happen by accident. It takes effort, thoughtfulness, and honestly… courage.

Are her texts making you smile or chuckle? Do you feel her pulling you into a fun, upbeat, exciting conversation?

If so, she’s really excited to talk to you. And generally, that only means one thing. :) 


She sometimes sends a few messages at once

If she’s sending you a series of messages back-to-back before you get a chance to reply, that’s one of our favorite 9 signs she likes you via text!

Either she’s so excited to connect with you that she keeps thinking of more things to add on, or else she’s hoping you’ll pick up your phone and text her back when you hear a few consecutive notifications.

It’s a strategic move on her part to capture your attention and show you how excited she is to talk to you!


She’s using some emojis or gifs

Really any kind of visual addition to her text messages is a great sign.

Does she use a lot of emojis? Or maybe she’s more into funny memes or relevant gifs

Anything beyond the regular alphabet is a sign that she’s in a good mood and likely enjoying your conversation!


Her responses come quickly

This one is a little tricky because “quickly” can be so relative. For example, some people get 100s of texts a day, so responding within 24 hours means they prioritized getting back to someone as quickly as they could.

For others, a “quick” response is 1 to 5 minutes. And still others find that a quick reply comes within a few hours of the last message that was sent.

Our best advice here is to determine what her average response time looks like. If she’s responding faster than she usually does, consider it “quick!”

Despite the wiggle room on this one, a quick reply for a woman means she’s interested in what you have to say.


She compliments you

A woman who likes you and respects you also wants you to feel good about yourself. She wants you to know that she’s seeing all of the wonderful things you have to offer!

If she’s sending you compliments, it’s a sign she likes you. It can also be an invitation to voice what you find intriguing, attractive, or desirable about her in return!

Do you feel vulnerable even thinking about sending her something like that? If so, imagine how significant her crush must be for her to have the courage to tell you what she likes about you first!


She asks you questions

Does she seem to be genuinely curious about you? That’s a sign she’s interested in getting to know you better.

Whether she asks you about your…

  • Job,
  • Hobbies,
  • Family,
  • city of origin,
  • Interests,
  • Pet peeves,
  • Goals, or
  • Values…

It means she sincerely cares to get to know you better and to invest the time and energy it takes to get there.


She likes to tease you

If she’s teasing you in a lighthearted way, it’s a sign she likes you and is comfortable with you!

Does she enjoy giving you a hard time periodically? Don’t be afraid to tease her back! You might be surprised how quickly that playful banter can turn incredibly flirty.


She sends you pictures

Sending a picture via text is the technological way to say “I wish you were here with me!”

Whether she’s sending you pictures of…

  • Herself,
  • Something she finds interesting,
  • A place or item you said you liked,
  • Something she finds funny,
  • Her surroundings, or
  • Something she simply wants to share with you…

The fact that she’s sending you a picture in the first place is a very significant sign she wants to share her life with you.

If you feel that same way towards her, find excuses to send her pictures throughout the day, too! An encouraging quote, a photo of your work-from-home desk set up, or even what you had for lunch. 

Include a simple message such as “thinking of you!” to make her feel extra special!


Final thoughts: Signs she likes you via text

Now that you’re familiar with these 9 signs, you’ll be able to consider whether or not there are tangible signs she likes you via text.

And what if there are signs? You’re 90% sure she’s into you, yet you keep freezing up when it comes to moving the connection forward…


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Micayla is resident writer here at Introverted Alpha, which is known as the premier dating coaching company for introverted men; featured by Forbes, Business Insider, Cosmo, and more. Pick up your free copy of our 22-page ebook inside the blue box just below.

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