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Dating Coach for Men: 1:1 Program to Attract Women Naturally

Be and feel attractive, meet and connect with great women, and fill your dating funnel with quality dates… all while feeling more like yourself than ever, in this 12-week high-touch, comprehensive program.

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Now Is Your Chance To Get Your Dating Life Off The Ground!

Hi, I’m Sarah Parmer, founder and CEO of Introverted Alpha. 

If you’re like the men we’ve worked with, you may not have had the chance yet to build experience with women.

This lack of experience not only can make you feel unsure about step-by-steps, it can also lead to self-consciousness about the lack of experience itself (not wanting people to find out, feeling like you’re falling further behind, et cetera).

I’m here to tell you that (a) we can resolve this together, and (b) you’re further ahead than you think.

Reason being, your analytical mind will make amazing use of whatever logical, intuitive information it’s presented… which Launch Your Dating Life is full of!

This comprehensive, high-touch program is a wonderful collaboration between you, your 1:1 Introverted Alpha Coach, and the program materials that have been developed and refined over the years.

As the top dating coach for men who are introverted, our team has ensured that all the pieces work together to give you sustainable confidence and dating skills that you can carry with you for the rest of your life, into a loving relationship and beyond.

Let’s take you from zero experience or very little of the right experience to a calendar full of dates, by bringing out your best self! 

How IA's 1:1 Dating Coach for Men Program Works

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Launch Your Dating Life is a 12-week virtual dating coaching program, with online training material and 1:1 coaching calls.

Over the 12 weeks, you will get 12 in-depth training modules, full of material that has been developed and refined over years of supporting hundreds of 1:1 clients like you.

What makes this program so amazing and fully customized are the 12 coaching sessions you’ll get with your personal dating coach for men, 60 minutes each.

Each call is recorded and sent to you for your records, and it will feel so good to listen back and hear the change that has taken place in (a) your voice, and (b) the content of what you’re saying in the calls.

Unlimited email support with your coach is also included. Send her screenshots of your online dating profile, messages, and new haircut! She’ll be there to give feedback and celebrate your win’s, a truly special vibe between you.


Also included is feedback on your style, grooming, overall look, and vibe. 

Your coach will tell you exactly what is working well and what to improve. It’s a wonderful jumpstart to your journey.

When you makeover your online dating profilesyour coach will be there to help. Since we work with so many guys in real time, she’ll have the best, most cutting-edge feedback for you!

At Introverted Alpha, we love that there is no ceiling on just how good things can get. That’s why we continually update the material, and you will get access to all future updates. 

Your personal female dating coach for men will guide you step-by-step to attracting and dating the right women for you, by bringing out your unique best, so women can easily see why they would want to date you!

Launch Your Dating Life

1:1 Dating Coach for Men Program Overview

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1. Be and Feel Attractive to Women

Learn what is uniquely attractive about you. Showcase that in your presentation online and in-person.

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2. Meet & Connect with Great Women

Meet the right women for you in the right places for you. Make easy, natural connections that feel great for both of you.

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3. Get Numbers and Go on Dates

When getting numbers feels natural, going on dates is simply the next step for both of you to explore a connection.

Let's Look At These 3 Phases In More Depth.

Each phase corresponds to one month, rich with training materials and weekly sessions with your personal dating coach for men who are logical by nature.

Here is what you will learn in each phase, strategically designed so your knowledge and confidence build sustainably:

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Phase 1:

Be and Feel Attractive to Women

What’s next? Now that we’ve built your confidence in Phase 1, next we start getting you connected with women who are awesome potential matches for you in Phase 2: 

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Phase 2:

Meet and Connect with Great Women

What’s next? Now that you are meeting women on a foundation of confidence, we move to leading well on amazing dates in Phase 3: 

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Phase 3:

Get Numbers and Go on Fun Dates

So that’s what you learn. Now, how does it actually happen?

What's Included in Launch Your Dating Life

12 weeks of private 1:1 coaching calls with your dedicated IA Coach. You’ll get weekly calls, 12 in total, plus all session recordings.

Unlimited email access to your coach for the entire 12 weeks. Celebrate wins; show her your messages; get her personal guidance.

12 modules of in-depth content, leading you through three major phases: your attractiveness, connection, and going on dates.

The total is $5,000. (A 3-month payment plan is also available.)

What Other Clients Have Said

“I’m meeting a new amazing woman every two weeks at this point. If I add any more to my rotation, I won’t be able to handle them all! And to think that months ago, I had never kissed someone… it’s just wild."
“I feel like I’ve made so much progress and I am leagues ahead of where I’ve ever been in my life. It’s baffling to me that I am having such FUN conversations on dating apps already!”​
“I went from feeling pretty isolated socially, which I was for years, to actively dating again. And now, being in a relationship, I feel a whole different liberating attitude towards myself and the relationship.”
“You’re not simply helping us find a woman to build with, you are helping us become better men for our women. Period. That’s the investment. That makes this world a better place. Thank you for that, Introverted Alpha.”

For audio reviews by clients, go here. Many have told us that hearing success stories from clients themselves was helpful as they considered the program.

For testimonials by 200 clients, go here. You’ll get to read their stories and feedback, organized by category.

For FAQ’s, go here. We’ve compiled answers about Introverted Alpha and how we work.

Next Steps

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If you’re excited about going beyond the dating tips you can gather here and there from blogs, and you’d like to improve your dating and social skills in real life with warm, interesting, beautiful women, we can do that together.

Here’s a summary of how we’ll do that together:

  1. In Phase One, you’ll expand your comfort zone and overcome “nice guy” tendencies.
  2. In Phase Two, you will be meeting women everywhere from coffee shops to the gym to Tinder.
  3. In Phase Three, you will have turned the dating world from a mystery to a wonderful adventure of your very own.

At Introverted Alpha, we help men build strong self-esteem by becoming their best selves and expanding their social circles, as we team up with them to apply our years of experience to their own lives.

We’ve provided dating and relationship coaching to guys in New York, Boston, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Austin, and many other cities and small towns all over America, Canada, Europe, and Australia.

Sign up below to express interest in Launch Your Dating Life, so we can shift your dating patterns, expand your social life, and work together to help you live your best life.

What could daily support from an IA Dating Coach for Men do for you?

In the vast world of dating, we go well beyond the typical men’s dating coach because we’ve made it our career to develop relevant, gentle, and effective dating advice that fits your unique challenges as an introverted man.

Get ready to meet the most beautiful women who are compatible for your introverted disposition, with no shame about your quieter nature, just pride at the man you are becoming every day.

Together, we can improve your love life in a way that has nothing to do with pickup-focused dating experts or the “dating game”. Don’t settle for anything less than real, genuine connections that feel wonderful for all involved.

Why choose Introverted Alpha?

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While other dating coaches are great at helping extroverted men, introverted men need a special approach, and that is exactly what we offer here at Introverted Alpha. 

Since 2014, we’ve seen that a system, a plan, and a team of women who care about and rally around each client are the best support possible for an introvert’s unique journey into mastering the dating process, securing a long-term relationship, and a bright and joyful future.

We are a team of women together ensuring your long-term success. 

To guide you, encourage you, and give you feedback… 

Not only will you have your dedicated IA Dating Coach for Men…

You also have 

Your Client Concierge helping you with anything you need, 

Your Alpha Advocate who got you started on the journey, and 

Everyone at Team IA behind the scenes cheering for you. 

Maybe you’ve seen a YouTube video, a social media ad, or a podcast covering the “Just do it, man!” approach. 

Pickup artists are everywhere, but thoughtful and kindhearted men need a special methodology that suits their unique personality and preferences. 

Introverted Alpha is that option, described by the single men who find us as “an oasis” from all of the noise out there.

Matchmaking is an alternative that many introverted men choose, but the issue with that is… 

  • What do you do once you’re actually on the date?
  • How do you flirt naturally, connect effortlessly, and present yourself well?

You need dating advice and personalized feedback to be your best on dates and to easily get dates in the first place via online dating or in-person. 

Becoming your personal best is what you need a solid dating strategy and dating coaching for.

Because the average dating coach for men focuses on an extroverted strategy, as well-meaning as these dating coaches are, they can’t help you adequately when you are introverted by nature.

If that’s you, take it from the men who have come before you: you need a dating coach for men who specifically caters to the logical, analytical, introverted mind.


Want to see if this is right for you?

Launch Your Dating Life is a 12-week customized 1:1 training program to equip you with lifelong attraction skills.

Introverted Alpha provides premier dating coaching services for introverted men looking to find love and invest in long term, healthy relationships. 

Learn how to find potential matches, improve your personal growth, navigate the modern dating scene, and succeed in the online dating world by following our dating and relationships coaches’ advice tailored to your unique situation, personality, and values.

Your thoughtful and encouraging female dating coach for men will help you reach your specific dating and relationship goals of finding love, becoming your best, and benefitting personally from the best relationship advice for introverted men who have a kind heart.

The total is $5,000. (A 3-month payment plan is also available.)

If you would like to discuss potentially joining the program and getting support from one of the best dating coaches for men who are on the introverted side of the continuum, please apply for a 1:1 conversation by clicking the red button just below:

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