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Dating Advice for Introverted Men

Hi there, and welcome to Introverted Alpha!

Let’s take a moment to make sure you’re in the right place:

This website is for thoughtful, intelligent men who are ready to
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What is an Introverted Alpha?


Let’s take a look:

{re}Defining Introvert:


An introvert is a deep and thoughtful person. He’s rejuvenated by peace + quiet.

Three qualities make him especially attractive:

He is easy to be around. He is genuine and real. He is mysterious.
Many people think introverted = socially awkward.

That cannot be further from the truth.

A person who is socially awkward can either be shy (introverted version) or loud and bumbling (extroverted version). That said, everyone can evolve past social awkwardness into their own SOCIAL FLUENCY.

Social fluency is a skill. Not a personality.

A developed introvert is very comfortable in his own skin, puts himself in situations and places that are favorable and enjoyable, and takes wonderful care of himself and appreciates his quieter nature.

{re}Defining Alpha:


A True Alpha has a strong sense of himself.
He takes pleasure in excellence.

There are three distinguishing factors of a True Alpha:

He is comfortable in his own skin. He has an air of quiet confidence.
He adds value as a way of life. Many people think alpha = asshole.

It absolutely does not.

A pseudo-alpha is constantly clamoring for external validation. He says to his buddies, “Dude, I’m the alpha. Respect me. Be my wingmen. It’s all about me.” A True Alpha, though, doesn’t need constant validation.

One-upping is a weakness. Not a strength.

A True Alpha knows and respects himself and cares genuinely for others. He has an air of quiet confidence, and men and women alike flock to him because he feels so good to be around.

Taken together, Introverted + Alpha = Benevolent Badass.


An Introverted Alpha is genuinely strong and naturally attractive.
Women love him because he loves himself and loves them.

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Does this sound like you?

You are a smart
introverted man.

You’re a linear, logical thinker with an incredibly rich inner world. You prefer quiet nights in with a good book or an immersive video or computer game. Because of your intelligence and diligence, you have a fulfilling career and material comfort.

Your love life is the one missing piece.

Even though you’ve got everything else in place in your life, you often feel lonely. You’d love someone to wake up next to, cuddle with, and talk about your days together. Without that, things feel a little hollow – like something’s missing.

Pick-up doesn’t work
well for you.

You could never accept that PUA’s premise is just on getting laid with little or no focus on genuine connection. Plus, most of it assumes an extroverted disposition, and it often has a hard, harsh feel to it that you don’t like. In short, it’s just not your style.

You want the freedom to choose an amazing woman

You want to first become good at dating so you can easily filter for the right woman for you when you are ready. Whether you end up wanting a playful dating life or a deep intimate relationship, you want to share your life with women who are honest, loving, and inspiring.

You want to be the very best version of yourself.

You are already successful. Now you want to learn how to get better with women, not just for more pleasure in that area of your life, but to self-actualize. For you, it’s about being the best man you can be, living a full satisfying life, and enjoying true confidence.

You are ready to overcome your fears & enjoy intimacy.

Though you might feel a little bit timid about getting intimate with someone, you are clear that you definitely want to overcome your fears. You want to find comfort within yourself and put yourself out there in a way that suits your personality and preferences.

You’re not sure how to handle attraction.

You’re not sure how to be natural with a woman, how to tell if she’s interested – and in fact – how to know what makes you sexually interesting at all. Because you don’t want to risk making her uncomfortable, you usually end up not escalating.

It can take you a long time to warm up to people.

You often go out of your way to avoid small talk, and you find yourself over-analyzing and over-thinking more than you want to. Also, it’s hard to initiate contact with a stranger without an obvious reason or a structure in place, like when you’re at work, for example.

You want a deeply caring, fun, intelligent woman.

At the end of the day, you want feminine beauty and passion in your life. For you, a woman makes it all worth it. A beautiful, loving, honest, and gentle woman would give you that extra boost of meaning in your life, your career, and your accomplishments.


If that sounds like you, let’s
go a layer deeper.

In our work with men like you,
we’ve uncovered three distinct
Introverted Alpha Archetypes.

Each archetype has his own fears,
desires, challenges, and strengths.

Which Introverted Alpha
Archetype are you?

Let's find out.

Want to know us a little better?

We are a team of women who love men.
Especially smart, introverted men.

That love is what Introverted Alpha runs on.

Simply put, we think you’re wonderful and you deserve the best.
You are earnest, accomplished men who are adding value in the world.
You have everything else handled and are now ready to
address your love life with gusto.

If that sounds like you, awesome.
Here’s what we want for you:

The joy of attracting refined, quality women as your day-to-day norm.
Freedom to choose the right short-term and/or long-term partners for you.
An ever-deepening sense of happiness, sensuality, and connection.
The confidence that comes from attracting women naturally.
A mind-blowing, super hot and connected intimate life.

If you stick around, you will learn:

How to earn your own self-respect through confidence and assertiveness.
How to genuinely connect with people, even upon first meeting.
How to actually enjoy dating and avoid the friend-zone.
How to touch a woman: from first brush to unforgettably hot sex.
How to transition into relationship with a strong foundation in place.

I'm sticking around!

Excellent! We’re happy to have you. :)

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