1:1 Dating Coaching Program for Introverted Men

Become a true Benevolent Badass, fill your dating funnel with quality dates, and set the stage for an exciting fulfilling relationship
… all while feeling more like yourself than ever.

Four Introverted Alpha Program Tracks

Track 1: Become a Benevolent Badass

Build your confidence, bring out your best, and become a social leader. This track is a foundational supplement to the following three program tracks.

Track 2: Fill Your Dating Funnel with Quality Dates

Fill your funnel by being and feeling sexually attractive, meeting and connecting with quality women, and getting numbers and going on dates.

Track 3: Date and Play with Ease

Enjoy the hell out of connecting with beautiful women: creating casual dating win-win’s, being an awesome lover, and choosing well for a long-term relationship.

Track 4: Build an Amazing Relationship

Start strong with ongoing masculine-feminine polarity, navigate relationship structure and key conversations, and keep it fresh and exciting for years to come.

How We Work

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All four program tracks build on each other. Together, they comprise the end-to-end Introverted Alpha system.

Each track is an active collaboration between you, your 1:1 Introverted Alpha Coach, and the program material that we have developed and refined over the years.

All the pieces work together to give you sustainable confidence, dating, and relationship skills you can carry with you for the rest of your life: into fun dating adventures, a loving relationship, and beyond.

While we are exquisitely detailed and step-by-step in our material, we do not teach “tricks” or “hacks”.

That’s because each program is about your self-actualization, which is swift and powerful when we are all focused together.

Each program is made of 12 modules and either 3, 6, or 12 1:1 coaching sessions over the course of 12 weeks. (We accommodate for travel et cetera; just let us know your situation.)

For Each Program Track, You Will Get The Following

1:1 Coaching Sessions

This is the core of the program. Meet with your coach via phone for 50-minute sessions to discuss questions, challenges, and progress. You’ll receive direct in-depth feedback on whatever you need, as well as a private recording of your session after each call.

Weekly Training Modules

You can access your track’s curriculum in convenient Google doc form on a beautiful dashboard on our site. You’ll get expanded learning in audios, and lifetime access to our continual updates after the 12 weeks.

Slack Office Hours

Get real-time feedback from our coaches on our private Slack channel a couple of times a week. Log on during designated office hours; and our coaches, Tiffany or Georgia, will be there to support you with 1:1 feedback either through group or direct message.

Unlimited Email Support

For clients in our weekly session package, email your coach any questions or comments you have between sessions, and she’ll respond to you within 24 hours on weekdays.

Personalized Coaching Options


Each Program Track is a duration of 12 weeks. Three months is the optimal time to establish and integrate new patterns so you can make deep, sustainable progress in this area of your life.


Select the coaching frequency that best fits with your availability and preferences (details below).

Pricing Options for Any Program You Choose

Weekly Coaching

Twelve 1:1 Sessions

Slack Coaching Hours

Unlimited Email

Either $2,700 per month for 3 months

Or $7,000 in full

Bi-Weekly Coaching

Six 1:1 Sessions 

Slack Coaching Hours


Either $2,100 per month for 3 months

Or $5,400 in full

Monthly Coaching

Three 1:1 Sessions 

Slack Coaching Hours


Either $1,500 per month for 3 months

Or $3,800 in full

Your Coach: The Best Part of the Program

As valuable as the training material is to our clients, they tell us that the very best part of the program is working with their insightful, intelligent coaches, Georgia and Tiffany.


Georgia is a Nova Scotia native who currently resides in Toronto, Canada. She holds a Masters in Professional Communication from Ryerson University in Toronto and is a certified Myers-Briggs Type Indicator practitioner. Georgia joined the IA team in 2016, and is committed to guiding every client toward their own path of success.


Tiffany lives in Bend, Oregon, and has a BS in Psychology from the University of Oregon. Like Sarah, she received her coaching certification from iPEC, and specialized in life and relationship coaching. She has been with Introverted Alpha since 2016, and loves discovering each client’s unique strengths with women, and within themselves.

“Georgia, wow, you’ve completely exceeded my expectations! I’ve read through your email and comments. Multiple times. You clearly put a lot of effort into this. And you’ve given me a lot to think about. I was nervous this weekend, but now I just feel excited! You’re so awesome! I can’t wait to dive deeper. :)”


“It’s like the old fairy tale about the princess who has a pea underneath her mattress and can’t get a good night’s sleep. And she keeps adding more blankets and mattresses and so on but it doesn’t really fix the problem. And after a while, there’s so much junk between her and the problem she can’t even figure out what the problem is. But eventually someone comes along and pulls out the pea and that fixes everything else.

“That’s how I feel right now: like the program made me realize, ‘Hey maybe adding more proverbial mattresses isn’t the answer…’ and then my coach came along and was like, ‘Dude, there’s a pea under here. I took it out so you’re all set.'”


“Keep doing what you are doing. You have put together a great program, unlike a lot of things that are out there. I’m about halfway through, and I have been finding it extremely helpful in clarifying things in my life so far.”


“Tiffany has been so great to me, I feel very supported and taken care of by her. I know I’ve asked some gnarly questions and she’s given me a lot great responses and advice, I take it all to heart and appreciate it.

“I especially liked how she handled a string of messages (And there were a lot) with a friend of mine that I had feelings for. Tiffany called me out on how needy and pushy I was being when I was constantly expressing my feelings to her, without being disrespectful or patronizing, which is not easy to do.”


“Tiffany, I always feel so much more energized after our calls. I feel like I’ve made so much progress and I am leagues ahead of where I’ve ever been in my life. It’s baffling to me that I am having such FUN conversations on dating apps already!”


“In return for all the wonderful feedback you give me, the one thing that I forgot to say when I said it was my birthday next week, is that I am so happy I’m doing this. It’s hands down the best birthday present I could possibly have given myself and that has to be a reflection on you and the IA team.”


Why Men Choose Us

Our clients choose us because we are a team of women who love men. We see the best in them, draw out their strengths, and give direct unbiased feedback on what is not working and what needs to change in their approach to dating.

In the process, they become distinctively themselves. They start getting attention not only from attractive women, but from their colleagues and perfect strangers as well. Their quiet confidence shows and becomes a part of who they uniquely are as men.

It is a special relationship we have with our clients. It’s a collaboration that continues well beyond the initial track they choose, as we often continue working with them and later hearing updates from them months and years later.

Sarah even meets up with clients and their girlfriends when she travels! It is thrilling for all of us to be a part of something so effective and fun together with our guys. Every client is a joy. Every one of them is unique, and we treat them accordingly.

We are very attentive with our clients and only work with a small number at a time. We don’t do “infoproducts”; we do this because we’ve tested a lot of things over the years, and this is what works best. We are committed to only offering the absolute best.

The program investments range from $3,800 to $7,000 according to the pricing table you see above.

If you would like to talk with a member of our team and see if it is the right fit for us to work together, please apply below.

We look forward to hearing from you.