Become a benevolent badass.
Attract women naturally.

Hi there, I’m Sarah Jones,
and I coach smart introverted men.

Even if you’ve had very little experience with women and don’t
currently know what you have to offer… As long as you’re earnest,
I can help you find your groove with women.

What makes a man an Introverted Alpha?

Let’s take a look:


{re}Defining Introvert:

An introvert is a deep and thoughtful person. He is rejuvenated by peace and quiet.

Three qualities make him especially attractive:
He is easy to be around.
He is genuine and real.
He is mysterious.

Many people think introverted = socially awkward.
That cannot be further from the truth.

A person who is socially awkward can either be shy (introverted version) or loud and bumbling (extraverted version). That said, both introverts and extraverts can evolve past social awkwardness and into SOCIAL FLUENCY.

Social fluency is a skill. Not a personality.

A developed introvert is very comfortable in his own skin, puts himself in situations and places that are favorable and enjoyable, and takes wonderful care of himself and appreciates his quieter nature.

{re}Defining Alpha:

A True Alpha has a strong sense of himself.
He takes pleasure in excellence.

There are three distinguishing factors of a True Alpha:
He is comfortable in his own skin.
He has an air of quiet confidence.
He adds value as a way of life.

Many people think alpha = asshole.
It absolutely does not.

A pseudo-alpha is constantly clamoring for external validation. He says to his buddies, “Dude, I’m the alpha. Respect me. Be my wingmen. It’s all about me.” A True Alpha, though, doesn’t need constant validation.

One-upping is a weakness. Not a strength.

A True Alpha knows and respects himself and cares genuinely for others. He has an air of quiet confidence, and men and women alike flock to him because he feels so good to be around.

Taken together, Introverted + Alpha = Benevolent Badass.

An Introverted Alpha is genuinely strong and naturally attractive.
Women love him because he loves himself and loves them.

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Does this sound like you?

You are a smart
introverted guy.

You’re a linear, logical thinker with an incredibly rich inner world. You prefer quiet nights in with a good book or an immersive video or computer game. Because of your intelligence and diligence, you have a fulfilling career and material comfort.

Your love life is one the missing piece.

Even though you have everything else in place, you often feel lonely. You’d love to have someone to wake up next to, cuddle with, and talk about your days together. Without that, things feel a little hollow – like something’s missing.

Pick-up doesn’t work
well for you.

You could never accept that PUA’s premise is just on getting laid with little or no focus on genuine connection. Plus, most of it assumes an extraverted disposition, and it often has a hard, harsh feel to it that you don’t like. In short, it’s just not your style.

You’re not sure how to handle attraction.

You’re not sure how to be natural with a woman, how to tell if she’s interested – and in fact – how to know what makes you sexually interesting at all. Because you don’t want to risk making her uncomfortable, you usually end up not escalating.

It can take you a long time to warm up to people.

You often go out of your way to avoid small talk, and you find yourself over-analyzing and over-thinking more than you want to. Also, it’s hard to initiate contact with a stranger without an obvious reason or a structure in place, like at work.

You want a deeply caring, fun, intelligent woman.

At the end of the day, you want feminine beauty and passion in your life. For you, a woman makes it all worth it. A beautiful, loving, honest, and gentle woman would give you that extra boost of meaning in your life, your career, and your accomplishments.

You want the freedom to choose.

You want to first become good at dating so you can have many options to choose from when you are ready. Whether you end up wanting a playful dating life or a deep intimate relationship, you want to share your life with women who are honest and loving.

You want to be the very best version of yourself.

You want to learn how to get better with women, not just for more pleasure in that area of your life, but to self-actualize. For you, it’s about being the best man you can be, living a full satisfying life, and enjoying the confidence that comes from that.

You are ready to overcome your fears & enjoy intimacy.

Though you do feel a little bit timid about getting intimate with someone, you are clear that you definitely want to overcome your fears. You want to find comfort within yourself and put yourself out there in a way that suits your personality and preferences.

If that sounds like you, then follow these 3 steps:

Step 1: Discover Your Vibe

You need to understand what makes you uniquely attractive before you can expect a woman to see it. I’ve put together some helpful exercises to help you do that in my free 60-page eBook.
The eBook is Gift #1.

Step 2: Build Key Skills

Learn the sequence of approach and conversation steps that match your particular attractive vibe. You can learn how to do this in my Core Confidence 5-Day Training. Guys email me all the time about how helpful it is. This is Gift #2.

Step 3: Find Your Flow

Become fluent in the land of women. Understand the subtleties of attraction, and enjoy being a benevolent badass. You can do this by staying in touch, receiving weekly updates, and emailing me freely with questions.
That’s Gift #3.

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Want to know me a little better?


Hi, I’m Sarah Jones, and I love men. Especially smart, introverted men.

That’s why I founded Introverted Alpha.

Because I think you’re awesome, and I think you deserve the best.

Period. You’re contributing to society. You’re a good man.

You have everything else handled except for the one missing piece of your love life, and you are ready to fill that piece once and for all.


If that sounds like you, awesome! Here’s what I want for you:

  • the joy of being adored and admired by women as your day-to-day norm,
  • the freedom to choose the right short-term and/or long-term partners for you,
  • a mind-blowing, super hot sex life,
  • passionate purpose and self-actualization,
  • the strength and solidarity of shared brotherhood,
  • and an everyday sweetness in life.

Another facet of my mission is helping
make sure every little girl safe.
My clients all partner with me in this.

Even more true than every good man deserving a fulfilling love life,
every girl on this planet deserves to be safe.

I’m so happy to have found a way for my clients, good and kind men,
to directly participate in protecting these girls and making a safe world reality.
Every time a client invests in working with me,
a % goes to Not For Sale, a powerful campaign to end human trafficking.


Why have I chosen to work specifically with smart introverted men?

Maybe it’s your logical, analytical way of thinking.
Your earnestness in staying the course til you get it right.
Your quiet strength and steadiness,
which is such a gift to women everywhere.

Even when you don’t see some of these qualities in yourself, I see them. And if you hang around here for any length of time, you will too.

As I said, I love you guys. And equally important…

I understand you.

I’ve coached dozens of men in their love lives,
and I’ve spent most of my life around smart, introverted men –
most often engineers.

My dad – engineer.
My brother – engineer.
My boyfriend – engineer.
Many of my friends, my ex, most of my clients… all engineers.

So it’s safe to say I get it.

I want you to succeed.

When there is a painful disconnect between you and the beautiful high-quality women you belong with, that is unacceptable to me.

Being a good man, you shouldn’t have to wade through a bunch of PUA stuff that makes you feel like crap. You shouldn’t have to scour the internet for randoms tips and half-assed techniques on dating, sex, and social skills.

In my world, you should be given only the highest-quality information on these things.

Even further, this information should be so beautifully crafted and so lovingly delivered to you, that all you need is to soak it up like a sponge, and plug-and-play.

I am committed to providing that for you.

Thankfully, when it comes to training smart, introverted men in dating, sex, and social skills, I’ve been doing it long enough to notice something fascinating:

What I’m doing… well, it’s working.
Like, really working.

Because of my extensive training at iPEC Coaching, and the hundreds of hours I’ve coached guys like you…
my readers and clients are now happier and more confident than ever.

They are approaching women more naturally, going on more fun dates, expressing more sexual interest, rediscovering their playful side, having more sex and becoming better lovers, making new friends, and even becoming more productive and just generally more badass.

Now, I am taking what I’ve taught them – what was previously only revealed behind the closed doors of private high-end 1:1 coaching – and am bringing it straight to you.


When you join my tribe, you will receive these kinds of strategies and insights:

  • Building real inner confidence and outer assertiveness. Earning your own self-respect.
  • Becoming a great conversationalist, someone who genuinely connects with people.
  • Actually enjoying the dating game, and succeeding at it. Avoiding the friend-zone.
  • Learning the intricacies of touching a woman: from the first kiss, to unforgettably hot sex.
  • Transitioning into relationship with ease, building a strong foundation of love and sharing.

So that I’m able to pass this training along to you, sign up for your Welcome Gift.

It includes a free eBook, 5-Day Confidence Training, and updates and access to me:

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Please take a moment to join right now, because this is the only way that you can consistently hear from me. Let’s get you on your way to attracting a fun, loving woman into your life!

I look forward to seeing a lot more of you. :)

To contact me directly, email me at, or call me anytime at (415) 562-7919.

Curious about what it’s like to work with me?

I specifically tailor my work to smart introverted men, helping them overcome shyness and lack of confidence through gentle and pleasant means, which is honestly the most effective.

I show them what’s great about them and clean out old habits so they are free to find their own unique vibe and knock women’s socks off.

We focus on laying the foundations for a lasting,
fulfilling relationship when they are ready.

Sarah, I have been more enlightened on this call here with you than I’ve been with any of the other things I’ve done.

You are warmer and higher – way more personable and way higher!

… more genuine.


I could never accept the fact that the primary focus of pick-up was just getting laid, with very little focus on an emotional connection, if any at all.

I struggled with accepting the fact that pickup is the only thing out there for a long time – until I found your website a few days ago.

I find myself agreeing with everything that I’ve read of yours so far.


It’s bloody refreshing, this whole conversation, because you’ve been so sincere the whole time.

You are spot-on. Unbelievable! I’m so glad I found you. I can’t even tell you… your insight, your views, perception.

You’re one in about a million, at least.

You’re good. You’re damn good.