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Dating Advice for
Introverted Men

Hi, I’m Sarah Jones and I help smart introverted men attract women naturally. Would you like my free 60-page ebook filled with helpful dating advice for introverted men?

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What makes a man an Introverted Alpha?

Let’s take a look:

{re}Defining Introvert:

An introvert is a deep and thoughtful person. He’s rejuvenated by peace & quiet.

Three qualities make him especially attractive:
He is easy to be around.
He is genuine and real.
He is mysterious.

Many people think introverted = socially awkward.
That cannot be further from the truth.

A person who is socially awkward can either be shy (introverted version) or loud and bumbling (extroverted version). That said, everyone can evolve past social awkwardness, into SOCIAL FLUENCY.

Social fluency is a skill. Not a personality.

A developed introvert is very comfortable in his own skin, puts himself in situations and places that are favorable and enjoyable, and takes wonderful care of himself and appreciates his quieter nature.

{re}Defining Alpha:

A True Alpha has a strong sense of himself.
He takes pleasure in excellence.

There are three distinguishing factors of a True Alpha:
He is comfortable in his own skin.
He has an air of quiet confidence.
He adds value as a way of life.

Many people think alpha = asshole.
It absolutely does not.

A pseudo-alpha is constantly clamoring for external validation. He says to his buddies, “Dude, I’m the alpha. Respect me. Be my wingmen. It’s all about me.” A True Alpha, though, doesn’t need constant validation.

One-upping is a weakness. Not a strength.

A True Alpha knows and respects himself and cares genuinely for others. He has an air of quiet confidence, and men and women alike flock to him because he feels so good to be around.

Taken together, Introverted + Alpha = Benevolent Badass.

An Introverted Alpha is genuinely strong and naturally attractive.
Women love him because he loves himself and loves them.

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And receive your Free Resource Kit with all my best material on building confidence and attracting women naturally.

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Does this sound like you?

You are a smart
introverted man.

You’re a linear, logical thinker with an incredibly rich inner world. You prefer quiet nights in with a good book or an immersive video or computer game. Because of your intelligence and diligence, you have a fulfilling career and material comfort.

Your love life is the one missing piece.

Even though you’ve got everything else in place in your life, you often feel lonely. You’d love someone to wake up next to, cuddle with, and talk about your days together. Without that, things feel a little hollow – like something’s missing.

Pick-up doesn’t work
well for you.

You could never accept that PUA’s premise is just on getting laid with little or no focus on genuine connection. Plus, most of it assumes an extraverted disposition, and it often has a hard, harsh feel to it that you don’t like. In short, it’s just not your style.

You’re not sure how to handle attraction.

You’re not sure how to be natural with a woman, how to tell if she’s interested – and in fact – how to know what makes you sexually interesting at all. Because you don’t want to risk making her uncomfortable, you usually end up not escalating.

It can take you a long time to warm up to people.

You often go out of your way to avoid small talk, and you find yourself over-analyzing and over-thinking more than you want to. Also, it’s hard to initiate contact with a stranger without an obvious reason or a structure in place, like at work.

You want a deeply caring, fun, intelligent woman.

At the end of the day, you want feminine beauty and passion in your life. For you, a woman makes it all worth it. A beautiful, loving, honest, and gentle woman would give you that extra boost of meaning in your life, your career, and your accomplishments.

You want the freedom to choose an amazing woman

You want to first become good at dating so you can easily filter for the right woman for you when you are ready. Whether you end up wanting a playful dating life or a deep intimate relationship, you want to share your life with women who are honest, loving, and inspiring.

You want to be the very best version of yourself.

You are already successful. Now you want to learn how to get better with women, not just for more pleasure in that area of your life, but to self-actualize. For you, it’s about being the best man you can be, living a full satisfying life, and enjoying true confidence.

You are ready to overcome your fears & enjoy intimacy.

Though you do feel a little bit timid about getting intimate with someone, you are clear that you definitely want to overcome your fears. You want to find comfort within yourself and put yourself out there in a way that suits your personality and preferences.

If that sounds like you, then follow these 3 steps:

Step 1: Discover Your Vibe

Understand what makes you uniquely attractive so that you can start attracting the very best women for you. I’ve put together some helpful exercises to help you do just that in my free 60-page eBook.
The eBook is Gift #1.

Step 2: Build Key Skills

Learn the sequence of attraction steps that match your particular vibe. You can learn how to do this on my blog and inside my 5-Day Core Confidence Training. Men email me thank-you’s all the time for this one.
This is Gift #2.

Step 3: Find Your Flow

Find more skill and ease in the subtleties of attraction. Enjoy being a benevolent badass. You can do this by staying in touch, receiving weekly updates, and emailing me with questions about attracting quality women.
That’s Gift #3.

Get Gifts 1, 2, & 3:

Discover your vibe.
Build core skills.
Find your flow.

Made with love:

I'd like all 3 gifts in one.


Want to know me a little better?

Hi, I’m Sarah Jones, and I love men. Especially smart, introverted men.

That’s why I founded Introverted Alpha.

Because I think you’re wonderful
and you deserve the best.

You are earnest, accomplished men who are adding value
in the world.

You have everything else handled and are now ready to
address your love life with gusto.


If that sounds like you, awesome.
Here’s what I want for you:

  • the joy of attracting refined, quality women as your day-to-day norm,
  • freedom to choose the right short-term and/or long-term partners for you,
  • an ever-deepening sense of happiness, sensuality, and connection,
  • the confidence that comes from attracting women naturally,
  • a mind-blowing, super hot and connected intimate life.

Another facet of my mission is
to help end human trafficking.

Not only does every successful man deserving a fulfilling love life,
*every* single girl on this planet deserves to be safe.

The grave problem with men feeling unsatisfied in their sex lives is that it
leads to human trafficking and other unacceptable abuse. This HAS TO STOP.

At Introverted Alpha, every student automatically sends a % of their
investment to Not For Sale, a powerful campaign to end human trafficking.


Why have I chosen to work specifically with smart introverted men?

Maybe it’s your logical, analytical way of thinking.
Your earnestness in staying the course til you get it right.
Your quiet strength and steadiness, gifts to all womankind.

Even when you don’t see some of these qualities in yourself, I see them.
And if you hang around here for long enough, you will too.
I truly appreciate you.

And equally important…

I understand you.

I’ve coached dozens of men in their love lives, and
I’ve spent most of my life around smart introverted men –
most often engineers.

My dad – engineer.
My brother – engineer.
My boyfriend – engineer.
Many of my friends, my ex, most of my clients… all engineers.

It’s safe to say that I get it.

I want you to succeed.

When there is a painful disconnect between you and the beautiful, loving, intelligent women you belong with, that is unacceptable to me.

Being a kind-hearted intelligent man, you shouldn’t have to wade through PUA tricks that make you feel awful. You shouldn’t have to scour the internet for randoms tips and half-assed techniques on social and dating skills.

In my world, you should be given only the highest-quality information on these things.

Even further, this information should be so beautifully crafted and so lovingly delivered to you that it feels pleasurable to learn and implement.

I am committed to providing that for you.

Thankfully, when it comes to training smart, introverted men in self-confidence, social leadership, chemistry, dating, and relationship foundations, I’ve been doing it long enough to notice something fascinating:

What I’m doing at Introverted Alpha is working.

Because of my extensive training at iPEC Coaching, and the hundreds of hours I’ve coached guys like you…
my readers and clients are now happier and more confident than ever.

They are deepening their sense of self, emerging as social leaders, becoming fluent in sexual escalation, skilled at dating, and fulfilled in relationship.

Now, I am taking what I’ve taught them – what was previously only revealed behind the closed doors of private high-end 1:1 coaching – and am bringing it straight to you.


When you join my tribe, you will learn:

  • How to earn your own self-respect through confidence and assertiveness.
  • How to genuinely connect with people, even upon first meeting.
  • How to actually enjoy dating and avoid the friend-zone.
  • How to touch a woman: from first brush to unforgettably hot sex.
  • How to transition into relationship with a strong foundation in place.

So that I’m able to pass this training along to you, sign up for your Resource Kit.

It includes a free eBook, 5-Day Confidence Training, and updates and access to me:

Yes, please send me the free kit.

Please take a moment to join right now
because this is the only way that you can
consistently hear from me.

Curious about working with me?

I work with smart introverted men who are
ready to start attracting women naturally.

They are already enjoying success in many facets
of their lives, which sets the stage for success here.

I treat my clients with respect, and I coach via gentle and
pleasant means, which is honestly the most effective.

I show them what’s great about them and clean out old habits
so they are free to authentically connect with wonderful women.

Together, we lay the foundations for an exciting, fulfilling love life
with beautiful, intelligent, caring women when they are ready.

Sarah, I have been more enlightened on this call here with you than I’ve been with any of the other things I’ve done.

You are warmer and higher – way more personable and way higher!

… more genuine. Chris

I could never accept the fact that the primary focus of pick-up was just getting laid, with very little focus on an emotional connection, if any at all.

I struggled with accepting the fact that pickup is the only thing out there for a long time – until I found your website a few days ago.

I find myself agreeing with everything that I’ve read of yours so far.


It’s bloody refreshing, this whole conversation, because you’ve been so sincere the whole time.

You are spot-on. Unbelievable! I’m so glad I found you. I can’t even tell you… your insight, your views, perception.

You’re one in about a million, at least.

You’re good. You’re damn good.