About Introverted Alpha
What We Do
At Introverted Alpha, we help smart introverted men attract women naturally by bringing out their unique best. The men we work with are kind-hearted, growth-oriented, and analytical by nature. Some of our clients are inexperienced with women in general, and others have been in long-term relationships or divorced and want to be thoughtful about their next chapter.
Wherever you’re coming from, our programs are designed to meet you right where you are and support you as you internalize principles of dating for introverted guys.
Through our free material in our blog, ebook, email training series, and especially our coaching programs; we help our men meet women naturally, go on fun ideal dates, and become benevolent badasses, using their power for good, not only for themselves but for others as well. We help each client see what is specifically attractive about his personality type so he can draw that out for everyone to enjoy!
The great news about bringing out the attractiveness that’s already in there is nothing needs to be manufactured! Nothing needs to be copied, memorized, or canned. Rather, there are gentle processes, frameworks, and steps that specifically draw out what is genuine and wonderful in each of our clients, including their uniquely attractive thoughts and feelings, so they can showcase that effortlessly to the right women for them.
As they develop and shine more and more, it’s not only their dating lives that take off! They get promotions at work, they start doing more things they love like hiking or cooking or organizing get-togethers, and they become more comfortable and confident in a variety of social settings. Many of our clients say they now feel more like themselves than they ever have.
How We Do It
The linear, logical introverted man is special. He needs an approach that is founded in what is familiar to him: reason, sequences, and deep-down resonance in his heart. Our guys are not only analytical; they feel deeply. They are intuitive, and so they need an approach that “feels right” in addition to “sounding right.” They need both.
That’s why we’ve designed our programs to both “feel right” and “sound right”… organizing the realm of emotions and the heart into an orderly format that satisfies the mind. We do this by sharing in a thoughtful, sequential way where concepts and practices build upon each other and enforce each other.
We also incorporate in-depth 1:1 personal coaching with our IA Coaches, which many guys say is the very best part of the whole experience for them. The way the materials and coaching play together equals a tremendous result for our clients, so tremendous that we haven’t changed it substantially since January 2017. The way we work with our guys is perfect for them, and we are thrilled to help them so thoroughly and closely!
Our Ideal Clients
Our Introverted Alphas are all unique! Every single one of our guys comes in with his own personally-shaped hopes, dreams, challenges, fears, and questions. We love discovering more and more about how each of our guys is made, and how each has grown, during our time together with them.
A few qualities they have in common are…
- Kindhearted and loyal. One thing our guys all share in common is a respect for people, for relationships, and for the bond that can develop between them and another based on kindness and earned trust. They want to find women who share these values.
- Commitment to integrity and honesty. In the world of dating advice, they are looking for something substantial that connects with their values. Their integrity also means they are excellent clients; they follow through as long as they have a loving, supportive IA Coach in their corner to be there for them and cheer them on.
- Fun-loving nature, even if buried! Our guys are sometimes quirky, often make us laugh, and always endear our hearts to them, whether they feel playful or not. We can see the hidden playfulness inside and we love getting to be the ones to draw it out!
- At a stable place in their lives, ready to invest with us. It’s not always the season to do an in-depth three-month program with a team of women, lol! But for guys who are in their words “done” with putting this off, and who are in a financial and logistical space to do this responsibly, we can get off to the races on changing their life trajectory together.
Many women tell us how dating an introvert is truly a gift, and we want to help you share your wonderful personality with the women who would be so grateful to know you!
Our Mission
Our mission is to refresh and uplift our clients so they can be their best and thereby enhance the lives of everyone they know and come in contact with. The best way to accomplish this is through our genuine, encouraging, step-by-step, and logical approach to dating and personal growth.
Our clients feel seen and loved as we open our own hearts to understand and value them, bringing out their unique best and helping them develop their skills in a sequential way. They see that they don’t have to be the brash life of the party to garner respect, affection, and devotion from the kind of women they seek as partners in life. And whether they choose to line up great dates through online dating sites, apps, or in-person, they find their groove and find that their dating journey can be fun and meaningful.
Our Offerings - Dating for Introverted Guys
Introverted Alpha’s primary offerings are two 12-week 1:1 coaching programs called Launch Your Dating Life, on filling one’s dating funnel, and Become A Benevolent Badass, on developing social leadership.
We also host events and offer First Touch To First Kiss, Magnetic Confidence, and other self-study programs as affordable stepping stone options. For our graduates, Level Up Coaching provides ongoing support.
How Introverted Alpha Began
People often ask how Introverted Alpha got its start, and it’s a story we love to share!
The idea for Introverted Alpha was born in 2014 during a casual dinner at a friend’s house in San Francisco. The company’s founder, an experienced dating coach and entrepreneur, had been working with coaching clients and noticed a unique group that stood out to her: thoughtful, analytical men who thrived with a coaching approach that was tailored to their natural strengths.
Inspired by this realization, she decided to create a dating coaching program that was designed specifically for these men, one that would help them bring out their best qualities and confidently connect with women in an authentic way. That evening, while chatting about her business idea, her friend turned from the stove, wooden spoon in hand, and suggested the name “Introverted Alpha.” She loved it instantly, bought the domain on the spot, and officially launched the business in June of 2014.
Within its first year, Introverted Alpha was featured by Business Insider, gaining recognition for its unique focus. Over time, the company grew into a respected resource for introverted and logical men, with features in Forbes, The Huffington Post, and San Francisco Chronicle, and more.
Today, Introverted Alpha is a fully remote team serving clients around the world. While the company specializes in coaching introverted men, many extroverts have also found success through its programs. Since its inception, Introverted Alpha has remained the only coaching company of its kind, dedicated to helping men embrace their strengths and build meaningful connections.
When people hear about what we do, they often say, “That’s so interesting!” It truly is a privilege to work with the amazing clients we serve. As we look ahead, we’re excited to continue growing in a thoughtful, supportive way, helping even more men on their journeys to confidence and connection.
About The Owner
Hi there! I’m Sara, the proud new owner of Introverted Alpha! My journey with this amazing company began in June of 2020 when I joined the team and quickly fell in love with everything about it: the mission, the purpose, and most importantly, the incredible clients we serve.
From the moment I started, I was inspired by Introverted Alpha’s unique approach to dating coaching. Helping thoughtful, introspective men tap into their natural strengths and connect authentically with women resonated deeply with me. It was clear that this wasn’t just a coaching business. It was a mission to empower men to see their own value and approach dating with confidence and courage.
When the opportunity arose to take the helm of Introverted Alpha, I knew I couldn’t let it pass me by. The company’s founder was ready to embark on a new path, and I was eager to carry the torch, ensuring that Introverted Alpha’s one-of-a-kind programs would continue to thrive and make a difference.
As the new owner, I have made it my mission to honor the company’s legacy while also bringing new energy and ideas to the table. I am passionate about creating a safe, supportive space where clients feel seen, valued, and understood. Every program, resource, and coaching session is designed with care to help our clients unlock their potential and achieve real, lasting connections in their dating lives.
With a strong belief in the power of growth and self-discovery, I work alongside an exceptional team of coaches to ensure that every client who comes to Introverted Alpha leaves with the confidence to pursue the relationships they desire. It is truly an honor to continue the work of this company and to play a pivotal role in transforming mens’ dating lives.
Outside of my work with Introverted Alpha, you will likely find me spending time with family and friends, creating new recipes in the kitchen, attempting to run (ha!), reading a good book, or mentoring teen moms through a local mentorship program.
Introverted Alpha isn’t just a business to me; it’s a calling. I’m so excited to guide this company into the future and to keep helping amazing men just like you step into your best selves and find meaningful, fulfilling relationships.
Where To Go Next
Thank you so much for reading. We are touched by your interest, and we are excited to serve you however we best can! Here are some links of places to explore on our site:
View all our dating coaching offerings and self-study programs, and take our 2-minute quiz to find the best IA program for you.
Hear what it’s been like for others to work with us on our reviews page.
Read our blog, full of dating tips for introverted men.
Get in touch by emailing us at team@introvertedalpha.com.
Stay in touch (most important!) by getting this free 22-page ebook, which will put you in the loop to hear more from us.
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