Become A Benevolent Badass:

1:1 Social Leadership Program for Introverted Men
to Strengthen Their Vibe

Find your true north, bring out your best around others, and become an intentional
social leader… all while laying your powerful foundation for more success
in this 12-week high-touch, comprehensive program.

What Is A Benevolent Badass?

At Introverted Alpha, we know that every man can become a true Benevolent Badass. 

What does Benevolent Badass mean anyway?

Benevolent comes from the Latin words “bene” which means “good” and “voleo” which means “power”… so it’s using your power for good.

This implies that you have power to use in the first place! You do. It’s inside of you, and together we can draw it out.

Badass simply means knowing what you want and going after it with singleminded focus in a way that benefits you and others around you.

Put these together, and you become unstoppable.

As an introverted man, you may have felt like being powerful or badass was elusive for you. You’re good, yes, but powerful? Maybe you’re not so sure.

I’m here to tell you that you are.

Over the years, I’ve had the honor of watching man after man show up with very little hope in himself and then walk away after my program with tremendous fortitude and courage in all relationships and life direction.

How Does The Program Work?

Become A Benevolent Badass is a 12-week online program, with robust training material and 1:1 coaching calls.

During your 12 weeks, you will get 12 in-depth training modules with material that has been developed and refined over years of supporting hundreds of 1:1 clients like you.

What makes this program so wonderfully personal are the 12 coaching sessions you’ll get with your personal coach, 60 minutes each.

Each call is recorded and sent to you for your records, and it will feel great to listen back and hear the change that has taken place in what you’re saying in the calls and how you’re saying it.

Unlimited email support with your coach is also included. Send her screenshots of your text messages, email threads, and new outfit! She’ll be there to give feedback and celebrate your win’s, a truly special vibe between you.

Also included is feedback on your style, grooming, overall look, and vibe. Your coach will tell you exactly what is working well and what to improve in your very first session. It’s an awesome head start to your journey.

When you makeover your social media profilesyour coach will be there to help. Since we work with so many guys in real time, she’ll have the best, most cutting-edge feedback for you!

At Introverted Alpha, we love that there is no ceiling on just how good things can get. That’s why we continually update the material, and you will get access to all future updates. 

Become a Benevolent Badass

1. Find Your Inner True North

Embody the Benevolent Badass vibe, understand your sphere of influence, and powerfully shift out of old patterns.

2. Bring Out Your Best Around Others

Feel relaxed and at ease socially; become playful and “flirt” as a way of life, shine at work, and resolve conflicts with grace.

3. Become A Social Leader

Uncover your leadership strengths, establish what you want socially, and engage people to new levels of closeness.

Here’s What You’ll Learn in the Program:

Mastery Area:
Find Your Benevolent
Badass True North


Module 1: Embody The Vibe (self-actualizing into a deeper version of “good man” and a “real man” while staying 100% true to yourself at your core)


Module 2: Understand Your Sphere of Influence (what is inside your control versus outside, how to shift the things that are and come to peace with what isn’t)


Module 3: Shift Out of Old Patterns (what behaviors are you doing by default that don’t fit in with who you are now, upleveling those intentionally one-by-one)


Module 4: Define What BB Means for You (what does your Benevolent Badass life look like in each facet: career, home, presentation, social, travel, hobbies, etc)

Mastery Area:
Bring Out Your Best Around
Colleagues, Acquaintances,
and Family


Module 5: Feel Relaxed and at Ease Socially (allowing yourself an open, deliberate, yet fluid stance in your body and mind even in intense moments)


Module 6: Be Playful as a Way of Life (how to “flirt” with everyone and delight yourself and others with fresh originality, creativity, and humor)


Module 7: Shine at Work Among Coworkers and Influencers (being the “life of the office” even while quietly doing your thing, becoming more trusted and sought after by colleagues)


Module 8: Resolve Conflicts with Grace (dealing with conflicting views and desires, being a liberated leader in difficult family and work situations)

Mastery Area:
Become An Intentional
Social Leader


Module 9: Uncover Your Social Leadership Strengths (identifying your existing strengths and traits, seeing how to use those artfully and benevolently)


Module 10: Establish What You Want Socially (what do you want your your social life to look like day-to-day and over time, clarifying your vision)


Module 11: Engage People to New Levels of Closeness (introductions, making new friends, deepening existing friendships, nuances of all this)


Module 12: Nestle People Where You Want Them (keeping the level of closeness/distance you want without being needy or rude)

What’s Included in Become A Benevolent Badass:

12 weeks of private 1:1 coaching calls with your dedicated IA Coach. You’ll get weekly calls, 12 in total, plus all session recordings.

Unlimited email access to your coach for the entire 12 weeks. Celebrate wins, show her your messages, and get her personal guidance.


12 modules of in-depth content, leading you through three major phases: self-knowledge, connection, and social leadership.

The investment is either $5,000 in full, or 12 monthly installments of $500.

Get Notified When Become A Benevolent Badass
Next Opens for Enrollment:

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What Other Clients Have Said:

“Keep doing what you are doing. You have put together a great program, unlike a lot of things that are out there. I’m about halfway through, and I have been finding it extremely helpful in clarifying things in my life so far.”


“I’m incredibly grateful for all I learned about myself and the adventure I’ve been on since the program. It’s not perfect, but I’ve been “more” of the things I wanted to be more of.”


“I’m the type of person that tends to over-analyze everything, so having someone who understood that side of me and had my best interests at heart was what I needed to get moving.”


“I wish I could describe the power that you’ve awakened in me, out of my head into my life. Thanks for sharing the abundance in your life because I can tell that you come from a place where there is no such word as scarcity.”


“I’ve developed a lot more self-esteem, and this has had ripple effects in every area of my life. I spend a lot more time doing the things I love (volleyball, writing fiction, visualizing a great life, doing yoga) and a lot less time doing the things I don’t like.

“I spend more time with the people I value and who value me, and less time with people who don’t meet those criteria. I’ve even started enjoying my job a lot more, because I’ve been pretty blunt about what I want from my job, and my CEO has been pretty open to making that happen.”


Want to see if this is right for you?

This is a 12-week customized 1:1 training program to equip you with lifelong social leadership skills. The investment is either $5,000 in full, or 12 monthly installments of $500. If you are curious to learn more, enter your email below so we can let you know as soon as it opens for enrollment: