Attract Your Best Match
1:1 Relationship Skills Program for Introverted Men to Be and Attract Their Best
Understand human nature, discover the natural best fits for you, and become an amazing partner… all while becoming more confident and at ease in life and relationships.
How We Will Attract Your Best Match:
It is a tremendous boost to quality of life when you can attract the best person for you in any role in life: romantic partnership, deep friendship, colleagues and business partners, trusted advisors.
Having the best people around you means surrounding yourself with people who flow with you through life, who are healthy and self-respecting and respectful to you… who see you for who you really are, who support you to be and become your very best, who are fun playmates in life.
Doing this happens in three stages, and each stage is very important:
First, you must understand human nature. You must know the different kinds of people in terms of their deepest fears and deepest desires, as well as which type of person *you* are. Now, people are more complex and diverse than a “type” of course! And yet, these types paint a picture of the most fundamental, primal aspects of being human, as each of us has a bit of all the types inside of us.
Then, you must discover which types work best with yours. And a great match for you is more than whatever type for different circumstances and roles; it’s also the health and happiness level of each person. Think of personality type as breadth and personal health and maturity as depth. You can come to understand this depth and breadth and how you fit inside of it (and how to increase your own maturity so you will be a natural match for extraordinary people).
Finally, you must learn how to relate to other people with grace. Grace means wisdom, compassion, and healthy boundaries. Not only does this make you a more attractive partner, lover, friend, and colleague; it also dramatically improves your quality of life. When you can accurately understand what others are doing and act accordingly in a graceful way without getting your feathers too ruffled, that is a great accomplishment indeed.
Once you’ve walked through these three stages, you will be ready to perceive and be a natural obvious complement for your very best match.
How Are We Going To Accomplish This?
First of all, this works best either on top of existing dating skills, or as a precursor for building dating skills. Both are required for attracting your ideal match for romantic partnership.
Rather than focus on dating (that’s what Launch Your Dating Life does!), this program is about understanding yourself and others so you can choose matches well.
Additionally, understanding these things helps you understand who’s best for you in business, your social life, romance, and life in general.
The way that this program works is you get 12 weeks of 1:1 coaching:twelve in-depth phone calls, unlimited email support between, and call recordings. Along the way, you’ll get twelve weeks of material to learn and integrate at a pace of one module per week.
Attract Your Best Match
Program Overview
1. Understand Yourself and Human Nature.
See your type intimately, so you can have deep compassion and leadership within yourself, helping you grow to your full potential.
2. Discover Your Best Fits.
Get to know how your type interacts with other types so you can have successful relationships.
3. Become an Amazing Partner.
Develop deeper, more real and substantial relationships by gaining wisdom in loving, kindness, boundaries, and more.
Here’s What You’ll Learn in this Program:
Mastery Area:
Understand Yourself
And Human Nature
- Module 1: Understand the Enneagram. The Enneagram is the most comprehensive, in-depth system on personality types out there. Get a refreshing, useful description of this system so that you feel uplifted and energized going forward.
- Module 2: Find Your Type. Go through an in-depth process on finding your type, and get your coach’s feedback to make sure you’ve landed on the right one. Here, you’ll also be able to assess your current health/happiness level.
- Module 3: See Your Patterns. Where *precisely* does your type go when stressed, and where do you go when you’re feeling secure? Understand the intricacies of this so you can operate at your best.
- Module 4: Grasp the Big Picture. Cross-apply the Enneagram to other systems, like the Myers Briggs, the 7 Levels of Energy, StrengthsFinder, and more to really see your 100% unique blueprint.
Mastery Area:
Discover Your
Best Fits
- Module 5: Get Insight into Each Pairing. Learn how each type interplays with the other types, and what makes a pairing harmonious and complementary for the introverted man.
- Module 6: Check Your Social Blind Spots. What other types might you click with, that you may not have even considered? Identify any blind spots your type might have around others so you can liberate yourself for the best opportunities for you.
- Module 7: Find Your Ideal Matches for Different Roles. What type do you prefer to work with, to share an intimate friendship with, to deepen a lifelong romance with? Find out which types work best for you in what ways.
- Module 8: Grow into the Person Who Attracts Healthy. Using your Myers Briggs and the 7 Levels Framework together with the Enneagram, we will map out your exact steps to become your best self and attract your healthiest fits.
Mastery Area:
Become An
Amazing Partner
- Module 9: I-It versus I-You. As shared by Terry Warner in “Bonds That Make Us Free,” some people see others as I-It (objectifying), and some as I-You (respectful). Furthermore, even if we’re primarily I-You, we can still have I-It habits that decrease the quality of our relationships. This module is about cleaning that up.
- Module 10: Loving Each Type Well. Every Enneagram type has a certain way that it likes to be loved best, that it receives love best. We’ll develop this knowledge and couple it with the 5 Love Languages to become outstanding lovers of people!
- Module 11: Strong Boundaries for Each Type. Every time is vulnerable to be taken advantage of in different ways in relationship, work, and in family and friendship. So we’ll go through how to develop your boundaries as each type, as well as how to encourage and respect others’ boundaries as a positive influence in their lives.
- Module 12: Navigating Conflicts Skillfully. The cycle of conflict in relationships can spiral into each person thinking he or she is right, yet being a million miles away from objective reality. Learn how to perceive what’s actually going on and right the situation to get back into flowing, respectful relationship in any context.
What’s Included in Become A Benevolent Badass:
12 weeks of private 1:1 coaching calls with your dedicated IA Coach. You’ll get weekly calls, 12 in total, plus all session recordings.
Unlimited email access to your coach for the entire 12 weeks. Celebrate wins, show her your messages, and get her personal guidance.
12 modules of in-depth content, leading you through three major phases: sexual attractiveness, connection, and going on dates.
The investment is either $5,000 in full, or 12 monthly installments of $500.
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