Jake is a client of IA who, before learning from us, wrote us this:
“Things recently fizzled out with a great girl I really liked, and she actually said she got confused because we were having great conversations but I never touched her!”
The thing is, he didn’t know how to lead in dating. He didn’t understand how to develop strong boundaries that were beneficial to the women he’d date and to himself.
As a result, chemistry was missing, and it was confusing not only to Jake, but to the women he dated! Sure, sometimes women wouldn’t call or text back, and he wouldn’t know what was wrong. But sometimes, he actually got feedback from them in their confusion.
Women would tell Jake they just didn’t know why they weren’t feeling that spark, when everything seemed great about him.
This was extremely frustrating and hard for Jake to come to grips with, as he shared with us:
“It’s tough to admit I am not as successful in dating as I could be, given the value I bring to the table. A number of women have pointed out their confusion after a few dates, that all the pieces should be there for attraction, but she can’t figure out why she doesn’t feel a spark. I look forward to working with you and Introverted Alpha this year to make some concrete improvements in my dating skills.”
And that, he did!
Over the course of his time at Introverted Alpha, Jake had some powerful realizations. Here’s the gist of what he learned:
This all made sense to Jake.
Once he got example after example of boundaries in action, he wanted to know all he could about boundaries.
We not only took Jake through our boundary exercises, we also created an entire program on boundaries so every introverted man could live and date better!
And once he established boundaries in all areas and could “walk his talk”, things changed in my life in many ways including dating.
People reacted to him differently when they saw he was a person of established principles and that he knew how to express his boundaries without imposing them on others.
Instead of being left in the “friend zone”, he found that women wanted to skip that territory altogether. For the first time Jake felt like dating became a real opportunity to find the “real thing” instead of just another exercise in building more callouses from rejection.
And once he did start a dating relationship, he was confident and able to quickly assess if she was right for him.
Check out what he shared just ten months after first writing to us. He wrote to us gratefully…
“[IA] helped solidify the way I view myself and romantic relationships, giving me confidence and clarity in the pursuit of love and the normal rituals and routines of being in a relationship. It doesn’t end. The principles taught in IA are a key part of how I sustain and strengthen our relationship: the constant negotiation of boundaries and ongoing seduction and wooing of my girl.”
Our powerful program is called “Benevolent Badass Boundaries.” We developed this program after thousands of coaching hours and hearing many common challenges men were having in dating and in developing relationships.
There is nothing like Benevolent Badass Boundaries anywhere. Several introverted men over the years have expressed gratitude to us for teaching them what is inside this program. We’re deeply happy to be able to share all of this great information with you in one place, for the first time.
The Benevolent Badass Boundaries program will help you truly identify yourself in easy steps to give you the strength that attracts a woman.
This program has been refined and perfected into a teachable form especially for men who are more introverted and thoughtful by nature.
As an introverted, thoughtful man, you need an approach to boundaries that brings out your natural kindness and also roots you in your natural strength.
You don’t have to come on too strong with your boundaries. And you also don’t need to ignore boundaries altogether.
What you need is a balanced, whole approach that not only helps you make practical and wise choices as you lead in a relationship, but helps you come across as thoughtful, strong, and desirable for a romantic relationship.
Create The Perfect Dating Zone
At Introverted Alpha, we love how genuine and thoughtful introverted men are.
You’re not the kind of man who can “just do it”… and that’s a good thing! Because you are so in-depth in your thinking, you need to understand *why* a particular boundary is good and how to best implement it for your benefit and hers.
Since 2014, we’ve been helping smart introverted men attract women naturally, and now we’re taking all we’ve discovered about how you best thrive and applying it specifically to creating the perfect dating zone.
As you become your own benevolent badass self with strong boundaries that support you and everyone you’re in a relationship with, life and relationships will become easier, more joyful, and more intimate substantially over time.
A lot of teachings on boundaries can come across as harsh for the introverted disposition.
Because of your kindhearted nature, you may feel like the only way to make good boundaries is to be “in people’s faces” about it, which is the opposite of how you are deep down!
And the great news is, you don’t have to do that. In fact, creating boundaries is one of the gentlest, most loving things you can do, not only for others but for yourself too.
We made Benevolent Badass Boundaries to show you exactly how to do that, in areas you’re already wondering about (like pacing in communicating during dating) and in areas you haven’t thought about but which matter just as much (discerning potential conflict areas early so they don’t become a big issue down the line).
In Benevolent Badass Boundaries, you’ll have everything you need to create your perfect dating zone, a place where you and the woman you choose can get to know each other in a safe, wise, open-eyed and joyful context.
Awesomely, you don’t have to become a “boundaries expert”! You don’t have to go to some kind of seminar or sift through a book that doesn’t jive with your way of integrating information.
Instead, you get to enjoy video after video (or audio after audio, or transcript after transcript, depending on your preference!) of curated, hand-delivered teaching just for you. Everything will resonate with your beautiful, thoughtful introverted mind so you can implement it with more ease and peacefulness than you could anything else.
Rather than taking tons of time to research and sift through resources that aren’t made for you, you can go straight to the source of what works best for introverted men. Yay! This is such a blessing.
Everything in Benevolent Badass Boundaries is custom-made for your linear, logical way of thinking. There are categories and subcategories, all mapped out and sequentially laid out… It’s like a white-sand Tahiti beach moment for your mind!
Because you’re getting the full picture of what truly supportive dating boundaries look like, you can pick what stands out to you most and reference the rest later. You’ll have lifetime access to everything; you can start with what is highest-leverage for you to implement!
Immediately after you enjoy the material for the very first time, you’ll already have changed. Your boundaries will already be stronger! Why? Because of awareness. Just being aware of what Benevolent Badass Boundaries are and how to implement them in your life already is the heavy lifting, and it’s fun and quick! From there, you’ll be inspired to keep going, to keep flourishing, and to keep reaping the benefits of all the wisdom you won in the program.
If boundaries are as familiar to you as a tropical mango is to a penguin, then not to fear! We’re going to teach you everything you need to know, from the ground up. We don’t assume you know *anything* about boundaries; that’s why we start with dictionary definitions of every single area we teach! This helps you build foundational knowledge with ease, even if you’ve never seen a mango before. ;)
First of all, excellent job on that! We’re so happy that you have developed those great patterns in your life. In Benevolent Badass Boundaries, you will build on that to fill in any pesky gaps in your boundaries knowledge, and to address anything that you could take to the next level. This way, your relationships will be even more satisfying, authentic, and joyful… and how nice will that feel for you and for those in your life, right?
If you’re one of our extroverted IA guys, awesome! By being here, you’re showing that you resonate with our approach at Introverted Alpha. And that indicates that you’ve got that gorgeous logical, linear mind! If you connect with the values and approach of Introverted Alpha, Benevolent Badass Boundaries is very likely to benefit you, since it addresses boundaries and not introversion specifically as its subject matter.
What will it feel like to develop your “perfect dating zone”?
With Benevolent Badass Boundaries, you never have to second-guess what you should or shouldn’t be doing or saying at each step.
That’s because you’ll finally have direct knowledge you can rely on for all these critical (and crucially different!) stages…
With your new awareness of benevolent badass boundaries, you’ll feel healthy and empowered. You’ll be able to attract the right woman for you and create an environment for your relationship to flourish.
Because of your wonderfully supportive boundaries, you’ll be able to hone your dating leadership so she can follow your lead as you deepen intimacy.
You’ll be able to show interest through your clear, attractive communication that puts each of you at ease.
And you’ll be able to rest assured that you’re accurately discerning signs that a woman is healthily relating with you and is invested in the relationship, so you can continue building closeness with her.
As a result, your relationships will be more fulfilling, connected, and nourishing than you even thought possible. And you’ll feel more confident too.
A man with a solid sense of self and strong leadership skills is a man that wonderful women want to meet!
With all that you’re about to learn in Benevolent Badass Boundaries, you can’t help but become that man.
Ever since Introverted Alpha was established in 2014, we have been committed from day one to smart introverted men. You are who we’re doing everything for! (You and the awesome women you’ll now get to lead well… so that everyone wins!)
All you need to know is that in a sea of information for extroverts, you have found yourself at the best resting place for introverts. And here, there’s no brashness. There’s no demanding that you become inherently different. There’s none of that.
All you’ll find here is story after story after story of the thousands of men we’ve gotten to help flourish into their very best selves as they enjoy relationships they only dared dream of having before finding us.
This can be you!
With Benevolent Badass Boundaries, you’ll finally have a template to leading well in any dating relationship, current or future, as an introverted man! As a result, patterns that have been challenging for a lifetime will melt away.
You’ll finally have clarity and boldness to make the best foundation possible for you and the woman you’re attracting.
You can feel peaceful and self-confident as you text her, take her out, and talk with her on date one, date three, date twelve, and date one hundred.
The level of intimacy this will allow is one of the most fulfilling parts of being human. We’re made for connection, and the only way we can have that is on a bedrock of good, trustable boundaries, that both you and she can rely on.
Whether you’re planning your second date, a milestone conversation, or a mountain vacation, you’ll be able to communicate and lead better than you ever could before.
We want you to have this knowledge so much that we’re essentially gifting this to you. :)
Because of how incredibly valuable Benevolent Badass Boundaries is, we don’t know how much longer it will be only $79.
That’s why this right now is your moment!
If you’re not feeling it, just let us know! When you send us your completed implementation sheet within 60 days of your purchase, we’ll refund you in full, no questions asked.
All you need to do is click this button. You’ll fill in your name, email, and card info, and there you go! You’ll instantly get an email with your login to Benevolent Badass Boundaries, which you can access immediately in your client dashboard.
Don’t you want to enjoy the same assurance and confidence in your dating life?
Do you connect with even *one* of the challenges above? This could be life-changing for you, just to address that piece, much less all the other boundary wisdom you’ll instantly gain!
Join Benevolent Badass Boundaries so you can build a loving, exciting relationship on solid ground.
One more thing…
What is your plan if you do not join Benevolent Badass Boundaries?
Don’t let a promising relationship slip through your fingers; set the foundation for a nourishing and fulfilling relationship that you’ll enjoy for years to come.